Friendship

So, before we moved here, Jay met this guy in AIT named John Locklear..They were "roommates"...during AIT I met him a few times...At the end of AIT, they found out we were all getting stationed at Fort Stewart. So we got here, and his family got here and we met. His wife Kisha was a lil reserved at first..and I didn't know what to think b/c Jay had told me that Kisha didn't like him. LOL... So I figured she didn't like me b/c Jay was my hubby. Oh lord was I wrong! i would not have made it through these past couple of months if it weren't for her! She is suck an amazing woman. I am not one to have that many close "girlfriends" and i don't really think she is either, but my life wouldn't and will never be the same b/c of her. She has such a kind heart, I can tell why John loves her so much. Se's my best good friend! lol but seriously, i have had a few setbacks towards the end of this pregnancy and she has been there every step of the way, and she didn't have to be there. she wanted to, and I am forever greatful for that.. I had to go to the hospital one night at like 7pm and she drove me to Savannah Hospital (which is about 40mins. away) and stayed in the waiting area with her 8 month old son for 5 hours! Hell some of my friends at home wouldn't even do that...no offense to anyone reading this, but it is true..some of them that i have known my whole life wouldn't stay at the hospital that long. And of course if the roles were reversed, i would do the same for her. It's just nice to know that I have made a life long friend and I have someone here that I know I can count on and she knows she has someone she can count on. It's hard moving away from everything you have ever known and then the person you moved away for gets deployed and you are left not knowing everything you need to know and feeling lost in this new place, and then to have someone to just go to lunch with, and then maybe dinner, or hey i gotta go by walmart wanna come also..and all these little things happen and it turns into this GREAT friendship in just a matter of months...its amazing...b/c I know the things I am thinking, she is also....and we can talk about it or not but we are going through the same thing and now we both have this friendship to help us get through it and we have this bond that no one else can understand unless they are in our situation. And it's just ....nice...to have someone here...in this state...in this town...that understands...